charles shepherd
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@charles shepherd I still don't see how this is any different and not sure if my point was clear. If former lung cancer patients (who now claimed to be "cured" - whether they are cured for life or having a return of cancer years later) were to smoke for a "fundraising challenge" it is a risk to their health. To me, this is no different than having a person with true ME/CFS do a physical challenge- it is a risk to their health.
Yes there are risks to everything and anyone could be in a car accident at any time, etc, and I am not saying that no one should live their lives. Any individual with ME/CFS can do any challenge that they want and I am not saying to take away their freedom. My problem is that a charity that claims to understand the illness and to want to help these people is doing a physical challenge to promote awareness of "Severe ME." On my absolute best day, I cannot walk more than a few feet without getting short of breath. But I am not bed-bound, not in a nursing home, not on a feeding tube, and there are people with severe ME who are.
I feel like this challenge is very disrespectful of those people and spreading misinformation and stigma. But I am running out of energy to continue this debate and leave it up to everyone else as it seems like a losing battle .
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I agree that the (complete) recovery rate is very low
But as I've pointed out before, the charity sector has a duty to also give hope to people, especially children and adolescents, that improvement and recovery can and does occur - even though it is not the norm
The number of media stories relating to recovery is in fact fairly low and the MEA does not concentrate its efforts on presenting recovery stories - we don't have that many to present in any case
I cannot disclose anything further at this point but there will be some important media coverage of ME/CFS before Xmas in a very well known and respected publication. And this is not a recovery story.
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Surely this all goes back to the degree of severity and variability that someone with ME/CFS is experiencing
On a personal basis, during a good patch, I can walk several miles through our Cotswold hills before I reach the point where I know I should be stopping. I can do this without any risk to my physical health and I regard it as an important contribution to my pacing programme - which has allowed me to slowly increase my activity/exercise tolerance over a period of several years.
So should the MEA refuse to accept any donations I could raise for medical research if I do a five mile walking challenge?
I can, in fact, walk 10 miles up and down the hills - but pay for this with post-exertional malaise.
But I really enjoy my walking and accept the consequences/risks - just as I do when I have been up to and down to London for the day to attend medical meetings and arrive home late in the evening feeling fairly knackered!
I have again risked my health - but this time on behalf of people with ME/CFS
Should I stop going to medical meetings in London?